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      <title>We Built a Site That Asks: Am I The Only One?</title>
      <dc:creator>J H (Juicy Jenny Racing)</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 13:49:52 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;p&gt;You know that feeling when you catch yourself doing something slightly weird — like rearranging&lt;br&gt;
the items in your fridge by colour, or rehearsing entire arguments that will never happen —&lt;br&gt;
and you quietly wonder: &lt;em&gt;"Am I the only one who does this?"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;That question haunts all of us. And we got tired of Googling it.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;So we built &lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.amitheonlyone.co.uk" rel="noopener noreferrer"&gt;Am I The Only One?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;h2&gt;
  
  
  What is it?
&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.amitheonlyone.co.uk" rel="noopener noreferrer"&gt;Am I The Only One?&lt;/a&gt; is a brutally simple anonymous social platform:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Post your question&lt;/strong&gt; — "Am I the only one who..."&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;The world votes&lt;/strong&gt; — "YES, same! 🙋" or "Just me 🤷"&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;See the real-time percentage&lt;/strong&gt; of people who feel exactly the same&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;

&lt;p&gt;No followers. No likes. No social pressure. Just raw, honest data from the collective human experience.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;h2&gt;
  
  
  Why anonymous?
&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Because the questions worth asking are the ones you're too embarrassed to Google.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Things like:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;...still checks the fridge every 10 minutes hoping food appeared?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;...has a full internal monologue narrated by David Attenborough?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;...has decided they're "a night owl" purely to avoid morning responsibilities?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;p&gt;With a username attached, you'd never ask. Anonymous, and suddenly you post it, 847 people vote,&lt;br&gt;
and 73% say YES — and you feel inexplicably, deeply relieved.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;h2&gt;
  
  
  The tech stack
&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;We kept it deliberately simple to move fast:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;PHP 8.3&lt;/strong&gt; — server-rendered, no framework overhead&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;MariaDB 10.11&lt;/strong&gt; — relational data, fast vote aggregation&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Tailwind CSS&lt;/strong&gt; — dark glass-morphism UI&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Apache + Let's Encrypt&lt;/strong&gt; — deployed on AWS Ubuntu 24.04&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;p&gt;No SPAs. No React. Just fast, server-rendered PHP that loads in under 200ms globally.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The vote system uses IP + User-Agent fingerprinting for anonymous users, so you can vote without&lt;br&gt;
creating an account — which matters a lot for conversion.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;h2&gt;
  
  
  Content moderation
&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;We built a two-tier filter:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Profanity filter&lt;/strong&gt; — word-boundary regex matching on 30+ terms&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Illegal content filter&lt;/strong&gt; — phrase matching for harmful categories&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;

&lt;p&gt;All posts go through this before hitting the database. Clean content, no moderation backlog.&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;h2&gt;
  
  
  Try it
&lt;/h2&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Go post something embarrassing at &lt;a href="https://www.amitheonlyone.co.uk" rel="noopener noreferrer"&gt;https://www.amitheonlyone.co.uk&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Find out whether you're actually the only one who laughs at their own jokes before telling them&lt;br&gt;
(spoiler: you're definitely not).&lt;/p&gt;




&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Built with PHP, sleep deprivation, and the constant question: am I the only developer who still&lt;br&gt;
deploys via SCP?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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